In a move designed not so much for its socio-political significance, or for its gender-defying "screw you!" to the man, but more out of thanks to her for having kept the groom alive for many years, [lemontart] was the Best Man. She also baked the yummy cake.

Someone quite special to me got married recently. The above words come from the liner notes of His and Her's wedding favour CD's. Those words sum up a special relationship my friend and I share- one created over years of support, hard times, good time and many laughs, often accompanied by Buffy and Muppets. The Groom and I have been friends for 21 years. And without getting mushy, since this is a food blog afterall, I
couldn't be happier for this union. Like tomato and basil or peaches
and cream, they are perfect together. Except that the Groom doesn't like
tomatoes, so perhaps its not the best analogy. But heck, its my blog
and I think there's fewer better pairings than tomato and basil, so I'm
going with it. If anyone was to convince him to eat tomatoes(I've tried) its the Bride. When I met the Bride I knew she and I
would be friends and a worthy partner of the Groom. Each time we share a table together there are no murmurs of "no I couldn't", "I'm on a diet", or "none for me". She enthusiastically eats whatever I've prepared with complete enjoyment and lack of guilt.That is one of the many things I love about her.
The fact that I was perhaps the only Best Man in a silk, Mediterranean blue wrap dress this side of San Francisco makes me giggle with pride. After all, these labels are just that, labels, originating from another time when men and women weren't allowed to have friendships of the meaningful kind. Thankfully times have changed and the bride doesn't give me the evil eye anymore, unless I ask the groom when he's bringing his entire collection of Bat Man figurines out of storage. I was happy to wear the Best Man label with pride. The fact that my compatriot, the Maid of Honour, was a witty lawyer named Mark just added to the charm of this truly original affair. He didn't wear the traditional sea foam green taffeta dress suggested but I'm sure the colour would have been lovely on him.
Perhaps the most traditional part of the wedding was this cake you see in the photo above. Being a proud Daring Baker, and always looking for a baking challenge, I knew as I watched this union move towards the inevitable nuptials this would be my chance to make a wedding cake and lucky for me they didn't have any other crazy baker friends. Initial conversations about the cake were a dream for me- complete artistic control was given. When prompted a little I discovered an icing preference- tasty was the word used. Once prompted a little more I was delighted to hear that a cake that tasted delicious was imperative. Fon don't became the word for the cake. There would be no bland fondant on this cake. Butter was more important than perfectly smooth corners. You can see why I approve of this gal.
And now, a day in the life of The Fon Don't Cake, if you will: